Motherhood

 What a beautiful feeling, what a nice job!! people may think but have we as women really every opened about motherhood. How at times we find it so overwhelming. When I first became a mother it is not that I felt an instant connection with my baby, it did took time for me to sink in that feeling to have that connection with my baby cause till now I have been the one screaming in the house "Maa" "Maa" and now I would be hearing the same for myself, now there is a life that depends on me, for which I am responsible. While embracing my motherhood with my first child I was always exhausted and at time I wondered how my mother managed to raise me and my three siblings ;)..I had a c-section , it was already difficult physically for me and then on the top of it feeding this lil one was such a task. Why I said this was a task as this lil gentleman had to be feeded, in every 2 hrs then burped and made to  sleep and by the time it came my time to sleep he wakes up because either he had pooped or is hungry again and then again the whole cycle is repeated leaving you sleepless and irritated. On the top of it you cant eat what you like, nothing fits us and so many hormones to deal with leaving us all drained out. We mother's become skeptical about ourselves and this if persistent takes the face of postpartum depression which we ladies at times don't realize but friends it is real and the only way to deal with it is to talk to anyone who you are comfortable with , seek help and support from family or friends to take care of the child so that you can also get time to rest , to sleep. Keep a check on yourself and if still you remain irritated and restless then please do take medical help, it is nothing to be ashamed of  or feel shy as this whole process of child birth drains us out both emotionally as well as physically . Always remember we are mother's neither we are perfect nor we are wrong we are also learning the same way our child is , with every milestone of him/her  achieved by them we also achieve milestones of our motherhood. So ladies lets keep enjoying this beautiful journey of motherhood...😘 

DREAMS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY

Every time I dream I have this amazing feeling inside me that I have something which makes me feel beautiful, optimistic and gives me reason to live. Dreams a six letter word which can spin your life in any direction u want and make u whoever u wish to be... (In my case an angel..:P)..remember when we wished on our eyelashes.(I still do..:P)and then waiting for them to get real as  soon as possible and then forgetting it and wishing for something else well it goes on and on ,some wishes come true others don’t..But still they are an integral part of our lives, they save us from hard realities of life, and at times from their pain too.

 Dreams let us be who we want to be, give us what we want may be for a short duration but still it’s something that no one can steal from us..people also say dat u should never be in an illusion always be ready to face the real  life but I ask why? If this illusion gives me happiness why should I give it up, if it helps me to face hard realities of my life, if it gives me a reason to celebrate my life why should I not dream..people also say that if u dream then be ready for the hard work to have to put in to make that cum true but I ask if someone  dreams of jus having an ice-cream does it really require a hard work (except 4 that put in eating it…:P). 

For me it’s not about making every dream come true for me dreaming is a way to picture my life as I want to have it, to celebrate it as I want, I may sound like someone out of a fairy tale but at times it become very difficult to live a realistic life cause life does not go the way we want it to, it has its own flow, her own way but dreams jus give us a diversion from it so that may be for a little time but we can imagine the way we want  our lives to be, the way we want to live it …so people keep dreaming and be alive….